Hello Everyone,
I hope you had a powerful, clarifying April. You should feel a difference in yourself. It may be subtle, but it is there! Possibly a little more motivated or hopeful? It could also feel like big feeling coming up that you can no longer ignore.
May themes include relationship assessments, creating new systems, and taking things slow. This is a month to examine what is draining your energy and what is filling it.
April was fun and playful and May asks us to slow down and not risk overwhelm and discouragement. So many are already taking steps towards living in a new way and reliable Taurus reminds us to be present in the moment and take it one day at a time. Just because your partner isn’t here, or the money is not in your account, doesn’t mean it isn’t coming. Resist the temptation to take score too early. Energy is moving quickly and you must stay the course!
In April, an Aries month, we were all about ourselves. In May the energy is going to highlight our relationships with others, money and the world. As we step into our new selves, ready for leveling up, our relationships will now come into question. This month, look at your relationship with money, your body, work, friends, family and get clear on what new systems you need to put in place. This may mean new health regimen, going to more social events, having clearer boundaries, making a budget and doing your manifestation work more consistently. Set your life up to line up with the YOU that you want to be. May supports practical daily changes.
All the small moments put together make up our lives. Be more mindful and do your best to enjoy the small pleasures this month. Celebrate the small wins, because they will also lead to big ones.
As we know, relationships are KEY to helping us clarify who WE are. Some are highly influenced by what others feel or think and struggle with people pleasing and co-dependence. Others isolate and close themselves off from relationships in order to stay safe. Either way your RELATIONSHIP with RELATIONSHIPS will be up in May.
All relationships or lack thereof, are a reflection of something inside of you. Everything that is coming into your experience is a result of what you have been feeling and thinking. Abraham would ask, where are your “trending” lately. So many of you ask me WHY something has manifested and I wanted to clarify here for you. When a situation or person is creating a reaction inside of you, you can look at it in the 3 ways below to identify how you are a match to this situation or person.
- Like attracts like. This may look like someone being angry at you, so where are YOU angry. If someone is being unfair, where can you be unfair?
- Opposite side of same coin. If someone is mean to YOU, where are you being mean to YOURSELF. This is also Victim/Bully, they both carry feelings of powerlessness so they match up even though they manifest in opposite ways.
- Where is this feeling familiar? Pay attention to the feelings coming up in your relationships and see how old patterns from the past are still active, even if the circumstances are different the familiar FEELING is what is drawing the situation to you.
After you see what your part is, the most important part of shifting your side of the street is to decide you would rather be HAPPY than RIGHT. Most would rather be right and I struggle with this as well. It doesn’t matter how right I am I must consciously choose compassion and empathy so I can stop these patterns.
So many of you are on the precipice of massive change. If you feel frustrated or discouraged, it simply means that you are noticing the absence of what you want instead of the presence of what you truly need. Take this time to examine your daily life practices and get happier, one day at a time.
Blessings,
Nadia
